Dear Pati aur patni aap Dono ka shadi ho chuka hai ek Jhodi Mein Band Chuke Ho. Aur bahut kuch bhi ho ki aap Jise Chahte the usko hi life partner Bana Paye. Lekin kai baar aisa hota hai ki hum jisse like karte hain Jiske saath pyar karte hai usko paane ke baad Pehla Pehla Pyar Wo Pyaar Nahi Rehta. Jaise pahle love me jitna Woh excitement nhi rahta. Kyu hota hai aisa.Isliye main aj likhne jaa raha hu ajka post Husband and wife ke Problems Ka Solution In Hindi .
Aisa kyu hota hai ki shadi karne ke bad dhire dhire ap dono me woh pyar wali batein kaam hone lagti hai?. Ek Doosre ko Pasand karna Ek Doosre Se Pyar karna Woh Dheere Dheere kam kyu ho jata hai. Aise dhero sare Sawal Hai Jiska solution kisi ke paas nahi hai aur aap Jab newly marriage karte ho toh tab aapke dimaag mein itna Idea Bhi Nahi Aata Hai Ki Jaise Main Apni wife ko ya phir apne husband ko Hamesha ke liye kush kaise rakhu ki Wo Mujhe Itna Pyar De Jaise Pehle vo Mujhe Diya Karta Tha.
Ha Apne Patna Se Pyar To Har Koi Chahta Hai Lekin kya aap ko Maloom Hai Aapka partner bhi aapse utna hi pyar Chahta Hai jitna aap usse Umeed karte ho. Toh phir aap kyun nahi usse Pyar De Pa rahe ho. Aisa kya hai ki aap Dono Ke beech fasla ban rahi hai. Kyun Ek Doosre Ke Kareeb hone par Bhi Ek Doosre Se Dur Dur Rehne lag Rahe Ho Jaise Dono Mein Woh Matlab Hai Pyar Nahi Rehta ki woh aapko khiche aur ap unko khicho.
Hume Toh hairaani hoti hai ki a dekh kar. Jo Ladka aur ladki Hamesha Jeene Marne Ki Kasam khate hai woh shaadi Tak pahunch Ne ke baad Ek Doosre Se uksa Jate Hain.Kaise hum apni Shadi ko kamayab aur khushal bana sakte hai in sare sawalo lo lekar used and tryed formula dunga.So hamare sath bane rahe last tak.
Aisa kyu hota hai ki shadi karne ke bad dhire dhire ap dono me woh pyar wali batein kaam hone lagti hai?. Ek Doosre ko Pasand karna Ek Doosre Se Pyar karna Woh Dheere Dheere kam kyu ho jata hai. Aise dhero sare Sawal Hai Jiska solution kisi ke paas nahi hai aur aap Jab newly marriage karte ho toh tab aapke dimaag mein itna Idea Bhi Nahi Aata Hai Ki Jaise Main Apni wife ko ya phir apne husband ko Hamesha ke liye kush kaise rakhu ki Wo Mujhe Itna Pyar De Jaise Pehle vo Mujhe Diya Karta Tha.
Ha Apne Patna Se Pyar To Har Koi Chahta Hai Lekin kya aap ko Maloom Hai Aapka partner bhi aapse utna hi pyar Chahta Hai jitna aap usse Umeed karte ho. Toh phir aap kyun nahi usse Pyar De Pa rahe ho. Aisa kya hai ki aap Dono Ke beech fasla ban rahi hai. Kyun Ek Doosre Ke Kareeb hone par Bhi Ek Doosre Se Dur Dur Rehne lag Rahe Ho Jaise Dono Mein Woh Matlab Hai Pyar Nahi Rehta ki woh aapko khiche aur ap unko khicho.
Hume Toh hairaani hoti hai ki a dekh kar. Jo Ladka aur ladki Hamesha Jeene Marne Ki Kasam khate hai woh shaadi Tak pahunch Ne ke baad Ek Doosre Se uksa Jate Hain.Kaise hum apni Shadi ko kamayab aur khushal bana sakte hai in sare sawalo lo lekar used and tryed formula dunga.So hamare sath bane rahe last tak.
Husband Wife Relationship Problem Ka Solution
Main niche important ADVICE dunga jisko gaur karna aaram se.Aur samajhna meri baaton ko ki hum apse kya karne ke liye kah rahe hai.
*Time spend kare ek dusre se
Wife ko har waqt utha chada kar baat karna pasand hai.Unhe jaise kaam bhi rahti hai khana banana,Bhagwan ki puja karna,Ya fir koi ristedar ya Friend aye to uske sath batein karna.Patni ki isi aadat se naraj rahne lagta hai pati.Means ap baat kar rahi ho un sabse to hume apna time kyu nhi de paa rahi ho.
Aise me patni ko / Pati ko bhi dono hi el dusre ko time do.Aisa bilkul bhi nahi hai ki har samay sirf apne pati mahoday ke sath betha rahu. Nahi Aisa Kuch Bhi Nahi Hai. Jaise ghar ka kaam kar lene ke baad Jab kabhi bhi aap free ho jao aur aapka Pati aapke Samne ho toh Unse Baatein karo Khub Sara Baatein karo. Unhe khana khane Ke kaho Magad yaad rakhna Akela usko khana khane mat dena Walki dono ek sath hi bethna khana khane.
*Gussa ko control karo
Aj ab main ek shadisuda life ki story kahta hai.Nisha aur rahu dono hi ek dusre se bahut LOVE❤️ KARTE THE. Dono ki hi shadi bhi hui.But kuch months ke bad raju nisha se gussa karne laga.Chhoti chhoti baaton ko lekar. Aise gussa hone ke Karan Dono Ke beech bahut jhagda bhi Hota tha. Last Mein Dono Ek Doosre Ke Saath baat bhi nahi karte the ek se do din. Then nisha hi Raju ko manati thi.
But yea toh ek problem hai Tha na Jyada time se jhagda lagne ke wajah se Dono Ke Rishte ke beech Ek Duriya se aane lage. Iska kya solution tha pata hai. Fir maine raju se kaha "Raju ek kaam karna jab kabhi bhi tumhe gussa aye to us waqt apna gussa kisi ek dairy me likhna. Aise har waqt likhna ki kitni bar tumhe gussa ayi.Aur dekhna itne din aur itne sare gussa dekhkar tera hosh hi ud jayega'.
Then tab se raju ko jab kabhi bhi gussa ata hai us waqt woh apne dairy me likhta hai aur us waqt control karta hai.Aise hi 1 month control kia aur dairy me likha.To then woh dekhkar uska hosh hi ud gaya dosto.Mahine me 17 bar gussa hua woh.Dairy me likha is wajah se control bhi kia.Is tarah dono ki life bach gayi.Aur woh abse kabhi bhi uske biwi ke upaar gussa nhi hota hai.
IS TArah apko bhi gussa thuk dena chahiye yar.Koi bhi chinta ka visay ho to apas me samjhakar kaho apni wife se ki yeh cheez mat kro mujhe achha nhi lgta.Bs woh dekhna sure manegi..Ap dono ka zindagi aise khusiyo se bhar jayega.Dono ki understanding achhi hogi.
Then tab se raju ko jab kabhi bhi gussa ata hai us waqt woh apne dairy me likhta hai aur us waqt control karta hai.Aise hi 1 month control kia aur dairy me likha.To then woh dekhkar uska hosh hi ud gaya dosto.Mahine me 17 bar gussa hua woh.Dairy me likha is wajah se control bhi kia.Is tarah dono ki life bach gayi.Aur woh abse kabhi bhi uske biwi ke upaar gussa nhi hota hai.
IS TArah apko bhi gussa thuk dena chahiye yar.Koi bhi chinta ka visay ho to apas me samjhakar kaho apni wife se ki yeh cheez mat kro mujhe achha nhi lgta.Bs woh dekhna sure manegi..Ap dono ka zindagi aise khusiyo se bhar jayega.Dono ki understanding achhi hogi.
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Shadi suda life me maje lene hai to apko kya kya karna chahiye ab main isko kahta hu 👇.
Chhoti Chhoti Baaton Ki Tareef
Pati ho ya patni dono hi dono ki tareef jitna karoge utna better hoga ap dono ke liye.Roj kam se kam partner ki 2 bar tareef jarur kare.Sabke samne chahe ho tareef kar sakte ho isse aur jyada achha hoga.Apne partner ki buraiyo ko nahi walki unme kya kya achhai hai use dhunde.Aur ap social media me kahne se achha hai unki tareef akele me kare.
*Partner ki baat dhyan se aur hamesha sune
Dekho kuch had tak chhoti si baat bhi kahne se unko achha feel ho sakta hai.Jaise ki ap tv dekh rahe ho aur apki wife/pati bula rahe hai tab unko kahna JI KAHIYE.
Aise mat kahna ki KAHO KYA BAAT HAI?.
Aapke swar me mithas lana bahut jaruri hai.Aur usi abaz ko kab aur kaha use karna hai taki apke sathi hamesha khush rahe woh apko pata hona chahiye.
Jab kabhi bhi woh apko aabaz de tab jitna bhi kaam ho,Jitna bhi friends ke sath busy ho magar unka baat jarur sunna ok.
*Ek dusre ki Friend ban jao
Friend banna bahut hi easy hai.Koi chhupa nahi aur man ki bate share karna ise kahte hai friendly ho jana.Ap dono bhi ek dusre ki friend ban jao.sukh dukh ki batein kro.Sukh me jaise bita rahe ho life aur dukh me bhi hamesha shath doge iski wada kro.Kabhi bhi ek dusre ko chhodkar nhi jaoge iski bharosha dilao.
*Bharosha Understanding
Ek dusre par bharosa rakho.Kabhi bhi is biswas ki dhaga tutna nahi chahiye.Ho sake isko bachakar rakhna.Biswas aur understanding jitni achhi hogi ap dono me utni hi age tak jayegi apki Marriage life.Koi nahi tod payega chahe jo bhi ho ap dono ke is biswas ke dhage ko.
Husband Wife Marriage Life Love Problems Solution
*Surprise gift de
Kisi ek paudhe ko only ek bar khad daloge to kya chal jayega puri zindagi?.Nahi na.Isi tarah rishto me josh aur Happyness lane ke liye kabhi kabar surprise ka arrange karna bhi jaruri hai.
Din me jab kabhi time mile to unhe MISD YOU BABY👩❤️👩❤️,Kya kar rahi ho?. Etc massage bhejo.Aise hi apne life me enjoyment ko lane ke liye new gift aur woh bhi surprise tarike se do.Dekhna partner kitna khush hogi.
*Ek dusre ke sath time bitaye
Ek Doosre Ke Saath time Bataye matlab only Ek Doosre Ke Saath Hai time batana. Jisne aapko Koi disturb Na kar sake Chahe aap ka baccha ho ya phir aapka parents. Akelapan paane ke liye aap dono ki ghumne Chale Jaye ya phir morning walk pe nikal jaye ya phir Apne Kamre Mein Ek Doosre ko Apna Samay de. Aur Ek Doosre Ko Itna Pyar Kare ki Duniya aap Dono Ke Pyar Ki Tarif kare. Dhyan Rahe Rishta Apne Ek Doosre Ka Sath Pane ke liye nahi lekin nibhane ke liye banaya hai.
*Ek dusre ki priority
Priority uthna Hai important hai Jitna Pyar. Aap Dono Ek Doosre ko free Roti Dena bahut zaroori hai. Kyuki priority Ek Aisi cheez hai jo dusro ki baat na Mankar only aapke partner Ki Baat Ko manta hai.i mean to say chahe jo bhi ho jaye koi kuch bhi kah le magar dono ke bich kisi third person ki baaton ko utna important mat dena jitna apke partner ka baat hai.
Hamesha partner ke baat ko hi sunna.Dusro ki koi sikayat ya baato ko nahi.Agar apko kuch bhi galat lage to use akele me dono milkar solv karna.Magar kisi ke samne nahi.
*Najar andaz
Rishtey me najarandaj bhi jaruri hai. Hard patni ka shauk hota hai ki nahi Sari ka ya phir nahi jewellery ka. Woh aapse mangta hai lekin Paise Ki dikkat Ke Karan aap Shayad nahi de Pate Honge. SMS samajh Lijiye aap ke patni aap se Mange Ki Ek new saree ki. Tab aap usko direct na mat Kehna. Isse woh ruth Jayegi ya phir Uska Dil Bhi Dukh sakta hai. Aap just usko Kehna ki Thode din ke baad mai aap ko new saree le kar de dunga abhi thoda Paisa ki Kami hai thode din baad Koi festival aayega tab new saree le kar denge tab toh chalega na aapko. Dekhna Woh Mana nahi kar paogi aur kush bhi Hogi ki aapne Uske samne Apne Dil Ki Baat khul kar ke di hai. Is tarah se kabhi kabar najar andaz karna sikhe.
*Se* par dhyan de
Shadi ke bad jyadatar is kisse ko hote huye dekhe jate hai ki Se* ke liye hamesha wife hi talne lagti hai.Iska reason bhi hai. Mrg hone ke bad ghar ka kaam,khana banana,kapde dhona etc bahut sara kaam ki wajah se thakan si ho jati hai.So finally rat ke waqt MOOD NHI RAHNA KARNE KA.
MAGAR APKO MOOD BANANA HOGA. Pati patni ek dusre me akele me baithkar is bare me baat kare. Yaad rakhna SE* ENJOY KARNE KI CHEEZ HAI .ISKO DUTY SAMAJHKAR MAT KARNA. Dono ki hi isme mood hona chahiye yeh baat ek dusre ko samajhna chahiye. Mood ke hisab se ap apni life enjoy karkar jio yehi behtar hoga.
"Ego ko maro goli aur galti ki mango mafi
Is Duniya Mein Kaun Galti nahi karta. Sab galtiya Karte Hain. Lekin galti kar ke Aise Na Manna yeh achi baat nahi hai. Aur Galti Karke kisi doosre par Woh Galti Jab Dena abhi thik nahi hai. Ho sakta hai aap se Galti HO bhi Jaaye toh aap apna Galti Maan hi Lena. Is se aap Dono Ke beech koi bhi manmutav nahi hoga jhagda bhi nahi hoga aur aap Dono Ek Doosre Ke Saath bahut khush rahe paoge.
* Patniya apne pati se jyada demand Na Kare
Sab ladkiya ek jaisi nahi hoti hai.Usi tarah patniya bhi.Sabki apni ichha aur khawish hoti hai. Usi ko uska pura karne ke liye wo Apne Pati se yeh leke Aao wo le ke ao Aise Mang karti hai. Magar aap apne pati ko samajh Na Chahiye. Aap ke Pati ka kitni haisiyat hai us hisab Se Hai Uske Samne demand Rakhna chahiye. Ha ichha Toh Sab Ki hoti hai lekin Woh iccha Apne pati ko aaram se bhi bata sakte ho.
*Career
Shadi ke bad kai patniya job karna chahti hai.Use apne career ke liye chinta hote hai. Aise me pati ko hamesha unka sath dena chahiye. Unki help karna chahiye. Mana to bilkul hi na kare. Agar apke wife ko apne pairo par khada hona hai to apka haq banta hai ki ap uske liye unhe prererit kro.
Isse apko kabhi paise ki kami bhi nahi hogi. Ap dono ka,apke bachche ka future ap achhi tarah kar paoge.Aur duniya walo ko iska proof bhi de sakoge ki ap dono sab me duniya walo se age ho,. Padhai ke mamlo me,paise ke mamlo me,aur soch ke mamlo me sabse age ho.
*Mobile kar sakta apko barbad
Ajkal ke daur me social site 1 aam jaisii Baat Ho Gayi Hai Jaise WhatsApp Facebook etc. Aise mein kya hota hai friends pati patni Dono ko time nahi de Pate hai social site mein busy rehte hain. In fact Aisa Bhi Dekha gaya hai ki social site to thik ke pati aur Patni apne phone mein lock Laga Kar Bhi rakhte Hain. Is wajah se Dono Ke Rishte Mein Saq Jassi cheez Paida hone Lagti Hai. Achhe pati aur achhi patni ka yehi gun Hai Jo Ek Doosre ke beech koi bhi baat Chupaye nahi rakhte Hain. Isliye aise lock wolk Lagana abse Chod dijiye ji se bhi baat karo social site pe Sab Kuch aap ke Pati ya phir aap ne Patni ko pata hona chahiye ta ki aap Dono Ke beech Kabhi jhagde ki Umeed hai na ho sake.
Ap agar successful Marriage life ki ummid rakhte ho to maine jaise guide kia usko surely follow karna.Dekhna duniya ap dono ke Relationship ki tareef karenge. Aur ap dono hamesha happy to rahoge hi iski ummid hum bhi karte hai.
Apko hamari yeh article kaisi lagi hai hume comments karke kahna. Aur agar achha lage to isko social site me share kar dena. Sath me apne Friend ko bhi taki sabko yeh advice mil sake . Ok bye . Khush rahna.
*Ek dusre ke sath time bitaye
Ek Doosre Ke Saath time Bataye matlab only Ek Doosre Ke Saath Hai time batana. Jisne aapko Koi disturb Na kar sake Chahe aap ka baccha ho ya phir aapka parents. Akelapan paane ke liye aap dono ki ghumne Chale Jaye ya phir morning walk pe nikal jaye ya phir Apne Kamre Mein Ek Doosre ko Apna Samay de. Aur Ek Doosre Ko Itna Pyar Kare ki Duniya aap Dono Ke Pyar Ki Tarif kare. Dhyan Rahe Rishta Apne Ek Doosre Ka Sath Pane ke liye nahi lekin nibhane ke liye banaya hai.
*Ek dusre ki priority
Priority uthna Hai important hai Jitna Pyar. Aap Dono Ek Doosre ko free Roti Dena bahut zaroori hai. Kyuki priority Ek Aisi cheez hai jo dusro ki baat na Mankar only aapke partner Ki Baat Ko manta hai.i mean to say chahe jo bhi ho jaye koi kuch bhi kah le magar dono ke bich kisi third person ki baaton ko utna important mat dena jitna apke partner ka baat hai.
Hamesha partner ke baat ko hi sunna.Dusro ki koi sikayat ya baato ko nahi.Agar apko kuch bhi galat lage to use akele me dono milkar solv karna.Magar kisi ke samne nahi.
*Najar andaz
Rishtey me najarandaj bhi jaruri hai. Hard patni ka shauk hota hai ki nahi Sari ka ya phir nahi jewellery ka. Woh aapse mangta hai lekin Paise Ki dikkat Ke Karan aap Shayad nahi de Pate Honge. SMS samajh Lijiye aap ke patni aap se Mange Ki Ek new saree ki. Tab aap usko direct na mat Kehna. Isse woh ruth Jayegi ya phir Uska Dil Bhi Dukh sakta hai. Aap just usko Kehna ki Thode din ke baad mai aap ko new saree le kar de dunga abhi thoda Paisa ki Kami hai thode din baad Koi festival aayega tab new saree le kar denge tab toh chalega na aapko. Dekhna Woh Mana nahi kar paogi aur kush bhi Hogi ki aapne Uske samne Apne Dil Ki Baat khul kar ke di hai. Is tarah se kabhi kabar najar andaz karna sikhe.
Relationship tips for healthy relation
*Se* par dhyan de
Shadi ke bad jyadatar is kisse ko hote huye dekhe jate hai ki Se* ke liye hamesha wife hi talne lagti hai.Iska reason bhi hai. Mrg hone ke bad ghar ka kaam,khana banana,kapde dhona etc bahut sara kaam ki wajah se thakan si ho jati hai.So finally rat ke waqt MOOD NHI RAHNA KARNE KA.
MAGAR APKO MOOD BANANA HOGA. Pati patni ek dusre me akele me baithkar is bare me baat kare. Yaad rakhna SE* ENJOY KARNE KI CHEEZ HAI .ISKO DUTY SAMAJHKAR MAT KARNA. Dono ki hi isme mood hona chahiye yeh baat ek dusre ko samajhna chahiye. Mood ke hisab se ap apni life enjoy karkar jio yehi behtar hoga.
"Ego ko maro goli aur galti ki mango mafi
Is Duniya Mein Kaun Galti nahi karta. Sab galtiya Karte Hain. Lekin galti kar ke Aise Na Manna yeh achi baat nahi hai. Aur Galti Karke kisi doosre par Woh Galti Jab Dena abhi thik nahi hai. Ho sakta hai aap se Galti HO bhi Jaaye toh aap apna Galti Maan hi Lena. Is se aap Dono Ke beech koi bhi manmutav nahi hoga jhagda bhi nahi hoga aur aap Dono Ek Doosre Ke Saath bahut khush rahe paoge.
* Patniya apne pati se jyada demand Na Kare
Sab ladkiya ek jaisi nahi hoti hai.Usi tarah patniya bhi.Sabki apni ichha aur khawish hoti hai. Usi ko uska pura karne ke liye wo Apne Pati se yeh leke Aao wo le ke ao Aise Mang karti hai. Magar aap apne pati ko samajh Na Chahiye. Aap ke Pati ka kitni haisiyat hai us hisab Se Hai Uske Samne demand Rakhna chahiye. Ha ichha Toh Sab Ki hoti hai lekin Woh iccha Apne pati ko aaram se bhi bata sakte ho.
*Career
Shadi ke bad kai patniya job karna chahti hai.Use apne career ke liye chinta hote hai. Aise me pati ko hamesha unka sath dena chahiye. Unki help karna chahiye. Mana to bilkul hi na kare. Agar apke wife ko apne pairo par khada hona hai to apka haq banta hai ki ap uske liye unhe prererit kro.
Isse apko kabhi paise ki kami bhi nahi hogi. Ap dono ka,apke bachche ka future ap achhi tarah kar paoge.Aur duniya walo ko iska proof bhi de sakoge ki ap dono sab me duniya walo se age ho,. Padhai ke mamlo me,paise ke mamlo me,aur soch ke mamlo me sabse age ho.
*Mobile kar sakta apko barbad
Ajkal ke daur me social site 1 aam jaisii Baat Ho Gayi Hai Jaise WhatsApp Facebook etc. Aise mein kya hota hai friends pati patni Dono ko time nahi de Pate hai social site mein busy rehte hain. In fact Aisa Bhi Dekha gaya hai ki social site to thik ke pati aur Patni apne phone mein lock Laga Kar Bhi rakhte Hain. Is wajah se Dono Ke Rishte Mein Saq Jassi cheez Paida hone Lagti Hai. Achhe pati aur achhi patni ka yehi gun Hai Jo Ek Doosre ke beech koi bhi baat Chupaye nahi rakhte Hain. Isliye aise lock wolk Lagana abse Chod dijiye ji se bhi baat karo social site pe Sab Kuch aap ke Pati ya phir aap ne Patni ko pata hona chahiye ta ki aap Dono Ke beech Kabhi jhagde ki Umeed hai na ho sake.
Ap agar successful Marriage life ki ummid rakhte ho to maine jaise guide kia usko surely follow karna.Dekhna duniya ap dono ke Relationship ki tareef karenge. Aur ap dono hamesha happy to rahoge hi iski ummid hum bhi karte hai.
Apko hamari yeh article kaisi lagi hai hume comments karke kahna. Aur agar achha lage to isko social site me share kar dena. Sath me apne Friend ko bhi taki sabko yeh advice mil sake . Ok bye . Khush rahna.