Sawal:- Hi sir main shivani hu delhi se.Maine internet par bahut sari post padhi hai love se Related but maine to bahut sare Website dekhi hai magar only apka website hai jo sabke problem ko samajhte hai aur uchit samadhan provide karte hai. Main sir bahut badi musibat me hu. Google me maine meri problem ke bare me likha magar aisa koi bhi post nahi mila jisse main kuch kar saku. Bahut pareshan ho chuki hu sir. Meri Shadi Bf Se Nahi Ho Rahi Hai-Main Kya Karu?.
Main puri baat batati hu. Gourab ji delhi me main ek chhote se private company me job karti hu. Main dikhne me sundar aur jawan bhi hu. Ummar 23 years ho chuke hai ab. Isi bich wahi pe kaam karne wale Rohit name ke ek ladke se satt mera Relationship ho gaya. Sach batau to woh bahut handsome hai aur uske bichar aur batein mujhe bahut achhe lagte hai. Isliye meri DIL ❤️ AA GAYI USPE.
Hum dono me sab kuch thik hai magar caste ke Problem the. Jiske karan hamari Marriage usse na ke barabar thi. Yeh baat mujhe pata tha. Ek din maine usse kaha ki mere ghar aao meri hat mangne. Aur woh itna achha hai ki sach much mere ghar me aya. Meri family se baat bhi ki.
But caste ke problem ke karan use mere papa ne direct reject kar diya. Mujhe sabkuch pahle se hi pata tha ki aisa hi hone wala hai. Magar fir bhi main ek try marna chahti thi. But jo socha wohi hua. Aur ek baat jo main chahe jo bhi ho jaye lekin use jarur pura karungi. MERE PAPA KI BAAT MANNA.
Mere papa ne jab main chhoti thi tab se bahut mahenat karke meri perverish ki. Kya batau apko. Khud khana na khake mujhe khilate the. Aur kahte the meri beti jab badi ho jayegi tab mujhe khilayegi. Aur meri har baat manegi. Aisa koi bhi kaam nahi karegi jo mujhe manjoor naa ho.
Papa ne ab meri shadi kisi aur se matlab unke ek Friend ke ladke se tay kar di. Aur maine ha bhi bhar di. Kyuki apko to maine kaha hi tha chahe jo bhi jaye but papa ko rona pade aisa kaam nahi karungi.
Lekin problm yeh hai ki main aisa Kya karu taki meri shadi jald se jald ho jaye. Mere bf nahi maan rahe hai. Maine use samjhayi bhi thi ki Mujhe bhul jao. Aj se hamara rishta khatam. Kya karu main papa ke khilaf nahi jaa sakti. So isliye dil me patthar rakhke kahna pada.
Ap hi batao aisa koi tarika taki meri shadi me koi bhi rukawat na aye. Aur shanti se shadi ho jaye. Kyuki usne kaha hai mujhe ki TERI SHADI KISI OR SE KABHI HONE NAHI DUNGA. Pls gourab ji help me. I m helpless. I just need your Solution. Plz plz. Kripya meri is samashya ko ap Dhyan se padhna aur jarur reply dena. Nahi to bahut badi anarth ho jayegi. Thank you.....
Answer:-
Hello dear shivani(name change). Main aapse thanks kahna chahunga ki aapne mujhe aur mere Website ko is layak samjha. Aur main koshiah karunga future me sabki help karne ki. Aapne jo bhi kaha maine padh lia. Aur maine iske liye meri gf ki bhi ray li hai.
Bahut sochne ke bad socha ki ek post likhkar hi apke samashya ka Samadhan du. Jaise aapne kaha ap family ke marji se shadi karna chahti ho. Apne father ke khilaf nahi jaana chahti. Ek bar Aapne try bhi ki magar bekar ho gaya. Apne bf ko bhi samjhaya but woh apke mrg todne ke chakkar me hai. Ab ap yehi chahti ho ki apkii sadi ho jaye bina kisi badha ke.
Yes dear yeh ho sakta hai. Just apko kuch baton ko follow karna hoga. Main tips dunga use try karna hoga. Fir woh to kya koi bhi apki shadi nahi tod sakta. Iski main garantee dunga apko. .magar jaisa main kahu same waisa hi hona chahiye ok. Warna unhoni hone me waqt nahi lagega.
Ek baat to hai ki woh apke bina nahi rah sakta. Aur apko samajh nahi aa raha hai ki kya karu.
Uske hisab se shadi ke liye ha bhi bol diya aapne. Aur isliye woh aapse jarur pucha hoga ki tune ha kyu kari shadi ke liye ?.
Magar main aapse kahta hu apka pyar sachcha nahi hai. Aur ap to mere hisab se khud ko khatam karne wali baat kar rahe ho. Lekin aapke hisab se jo ho raha hai woh thik ho raha hai. Ok lekin apko kisi aur se shadi karni thi to use bf kyu banaya?. finally ap jo chahte ho wohi hoga aur kya. Kyuki mujhe to apki help karni hai.
Love Marriage me ladkiya apne bf se shadi karti hai magar arrange Marriage me kisi or ke Boyfriend se...
Yeh kahawat ap par lagu hota hai shivani. Anyway ap niche diye gaye tips ka follow kare. Then apke life me mrg me koi bhi musibat nahi ayega.
*Mutual separation
Ok samajh lo ki ap kisi or ki ho jayoge aur ap yeh bhi kar sakte ho shadi ke bad bf se rishta banaye rakhna. Uske phone aane se yeh bhi kah sakte ho. Magar aisi bhul ap mat karna. Kisi ko kuch bhi samjhane ki jarurat nahi hai. Aisa karne se ap na to apne Husband ke prati wafadar rahoge aur na hi apne pyar ke prati imandar. Isliye mrg se pahle hi dono alag ho jaye yehi behtar hoga.
*Mangetar se kuch batein chhupaye
Yes yeh sach hai Marriage me dono ko hi dono ke past ke bare me sab kuch maloom hona chahiye. Kisi ko kisi se kuch bhi chhupana nahi chahiye. Magar ap apne past ko chhupaye rakhna. Chahe ap bf ke kitne bhi kareeb the yeh sab kahne ki apko jarurat nahi hai. Agar aapne aisa kiya to pahle se ap dono ke Relation me kadwahat aa sakti hai. Jo sadi ke bad dekhne ko milega.
*Boyfriend se aaste aaste duriya banaye
Apko to pata hai ki turant ek hi jhatke me rishta nahi banta. Usi tarah ek hi jhatke me rishta toda bhi nahi jata. Ap ek hi din me purane sathi se Relationship todne ki kosish mat karna. Thoda time dena use aur apne aap ko. Agar aapne jaldbazi me koi galat kadam utha liye to woh apki baton ko bardast na karne ke karan koi kharab faishla bhi le sakta hai apke khilaf.
*Daro mat
Ho sakta hai apke bf ne apko dhamki di hogi magar ap darna nahi. Haushla rakhna. Kuch nahi hoga. Woh kuch nahi kar payega. Ap pura hi use bhul jana. Woh apke kuch nahi lagte. Aisi soch rakhne se dekhna aage badhne me apko himmat milegi.
*Shadi me bf ko mat bulana
Agar fir bhi ap use samjhane me kamiyab ho jao ki hum dono only friend rahenge. Isme koi harj nahi ap dono dost bankar rah sakte ho. Magar ek Dost ke hasiyat se apne shadi me bhulkar bhi na bulana. Agar woh aa gaya to ap dono samna samni nhi ho paoge. Aur kya pata woh kuch galat bhi kar sakta hai. So that's why sabko bulaye but usko chhodke.
*Usse money ka hisab kitab khatam kar de
Main yeh bat un sare girls ko kahna chahunga jo life me sirf apne bf ke sath jina chahti thi. Usko Husband banane ki ichha thi. Isliye dono joint account bhi bank me khule honge. Ya apki paise uske pass aur uska paisa apke pas rahta hoga. Magar jab ap Breakup hi karna chahte ho to is len den ko bhi nipta dena samay se pahle. Taki future me paise se koi problem na ho sake.
Shivani ap is tarah apni shadi bina kisi adchan ke kar sakti ho. Aur ha Thik thak se mrg karna apne father ki head ucha rakhna use nicha mat hone dena. Taki main bhi sabse kah saku ki shivani meri Friend hai.
Thank you. Apko hamari yeh Article kaisi lagi?. Mujhe comment karke jarur batana. Aur fayda mile kisiko to please is post ko sare social site me aur apne dosto ke sath share kar dena. Taki sabhi ko best solution mil paye .
Main puri baat batati hu. Gourab ji delhi me main ek chhote se private company me job karti hu. Main dikhne me sundar aur jawan bhi hu. Ummar 23 years ho chuke hai ab. Isi bich wahi pe kaam karne wale Rohit name ke ek ladke se satt mera Relationship ho gaya. Sach batau to woh bahut handsome hai aur uske bichar aur batein mujhe bahut achhe lagte hai. Isliye meri DIL ❤️ AA GAYI USPE.
Hum dono me sab kuch thik hai magar caste ke Problem the. Jiske karan hamari Marriage usse na ke barabar thi. Yeh baat mujhe pata tha. Ek din maine usse kaha ki mere ghar aao meri hat mangne. Aur woh itna achha hai ki sach much mere ghar me aya. Meri family se baat bhi ki.
But caste ke problem ke karan use mere papa ne direct reject kar diya. Mujhe sabkuch pahle se hi pata tha ki aisa hi hone wala hai. Magar fir bhi main ek try marna chahti thi. But jo socha wohi hua. Aur ek baat jo main chahe jo bhi ho jaye lekin use jarur pura karungi. MERE PAPA KI BAAT MANNA.
Mere papa ne jab main chhoti thi tab se bahut mahenat karke meri perverish ki. Kya batau apko. Khud khana na khake mujhe khilate the. Aur kahte the meri beti jab badi ho jayegi tab mujhe khilayegi. Aur meri har baat manegi. Aisa koi bhi kaam nahi karegi jo mujhe manjoor naa ho.
Papa ne ab meri shadi kisi aur se matlab unke ek Friend ke ladke se tay kar di. Aur maine ha bhi bhar di. Kyuki apko to maine kaha hi tha chahe jo bhi jaye but papa ko rona pade aisa kaam nahi karungi.
What To Do If You Are Not Marrying Boyfriend
Lekin problm yeh hai ki main aisa Kya karu taki meri shadi jald se jald ho jaye. Mere bf nahi maan rahe hai. Maine use samjhayi bhi thi ki Mujhe bhul jao. Aj se hamara rishta khatam. Kya karu main papa ke khilaf nahi jaa sakti. So isliye dil me patthar rakhke kahna pada.
Ap hi batao aisa koi tarika taki meri shadi me koi bhi rukawat na aye. Aur shanti se shadi ho jaye. Kyuki usne kaha hai mujhe ki TERI SHADI KISI OR SE KABHI HONE NAHI DUNGA. Pls gourab ji help me. I m helpless. I just need your Solution. Plz plz. Kripya meri is samashya ko ap Dhyan se padhna aur jarur reply dena. Nahi to bahut badi anarth ho jayegi. Thank you.....
Answer:-
Hello dear shivani(name change). Main aapse thanks kahna chahunga ki aapne mujhe aur mere Website ko is layak samjha. Aur main koshiah karunga future me sabki help karne ki. Aapne jo bhi kaha maine padh lia. Aur maine iske liye meri gf ki bhi ray li hai.
Bahut sochne ke bad socha ki ek post likhkar hi apke samashya ka Samadhan du. Jaise aapne kaha ap family ke marji se shadi karna chahti ho. Apne father ke khilaf nahi jaana chahti. Ek bar Aapne try bhi ki magar bekar ho gaya. Apne bf ko bhi samjhaya but woh apke mrg todne ke chakkar me hai. Ab ap yehi chahti ho ki apkii sadi ho jaye bina kisi badha ke.
Yes dear yeh ho sakta hai. Just apko kuch baton ko follow karna hoga. Main tips dunga use try karna hoga. Fir woh to kya koi bhi apki shadi nahi tod sakta. Iski main garantee dunga apko. .magar jaisa main kahu same waisa hi hona chahiye ok. Warna unhoni hone me waqt nahi lagega.
Main Bahut Preshan Hu Kya Karu [Problems and these Solution]
Ek baat to hai ki woh apke bina nahi rah sakta. Aur apko samajh nahi aa raha hai ki kya karu.
Uske hisab se shadi ke liye ha bhi bol diya aapne. Aur isliye woh aapse jarur pucha hoga ki tune ha kyu kari shadi ke liye ?.
Magar main aapse kahta hu apka pyar sachcha nahi hai. Aur ap to mere hisab se khud ko khatam karne wali baat kar rahe ho. Lekin aapke hisab se jo ho raha hai woh thik ho raha hai. Ok lekin apko kisi aur se shadi karni thi to use bf kyu banaya?. finally ap jo chahte ho wohi hoga aur kya. Kyuki mujhe to apki help karni hai.
Love Marriage me ladkiya apne bf se shadi karti hai magar arrange Marriage me kisi or ke Boyfriend se...
Yeh kahawat ap par lagu hota hai shivani. Anyway ap niche diye gaye tips ka follow kare. Then apke life me mrg me koi bhi musibat nahi ayega.
Main Kya Karu | Meri Shadi Kisi Aur Se Ho Rahi Hai
*Mutual separation
Ok samajh lo ki ap kisi or ki ho jayoge aur ap yeh bhi kar sakte ho shadi ke bad bf se rishta banaye rakhna. Uske phone aane se yeh bhi kah sakte ho. Magar aisi bhul ap mat karna. Kisi ko kuch bhi samjhane ki jarurat nahi hai. Aisa karne se ap na to apne Husband ke prati wafadar rahoge aur na hi apne pyar ke prati imandar. Isliye mrg se pahle hi dono alag ho jaye yehi behtar hoga.
*Mangetar se kuch batein chhupaye
Yes yeh sach hai Marriage me dono ko hi dono ke past ke bare me sab kuch maloom hona chahiye. Kisi ko kisi se kuch bhi chhupana nahi chahiye. Magar ap apne past ko chhupaye rakhna. Chahe ap bf ke kitne bhi kareeb the yeh sab kahne ki apko jarurat nahi hai. Agar aapne aisa kiya to pahle se ap dono ke Relation me kadwahat aa sakti hai. Jo sadi ke bad dekhne ko milega.
*Boyfriend se aaste aaste duriya banaye
Apko to pata hai ki turant ek hi jhatke me rishta nahi banta. Usi tarah ek hi jhatke me rishta toda bhi nahi jata. Ap ek hi din me purane sathi se Relationship todne ki kosish mat karna. Thoda time dena use aur apne aap ko. Agar aapne jaldbazi me koi galat kadam utha liye to woh apki baton ko bardast na karne ke karan koi kharab faishla bhi le sakta hai apke khilaf.
*Daro mat
Ho sakta hai apke bf ne apko dhamki di hogi magar ap darna nahi. Haushla rakhna. Kuch nahi hoga. Woh kuch nahi kar payega. Ap pura hi use bhul jana. Woh apke kuch nahi lagte. Aisi soch rakhne se dekhna aage badhne me apko himmat milegi.
Please Meri Samashya Ka Koi Samadhan Bataye
*Shadi me bf ko mat bulana
Agar fir bhi ap use samjhane me kamiyab ho jao ki hum dono only friend rahenge. Isme koi harj nahi ap dono dost bankar rah sakte ho. Magar ek Dost ke hasiyat se apne shadi me bhulkar bhi na bulana. Agar woh aa gaya to ap dono samna samni nhi ho paoge. Aur kya pata woh kuch galat bhi kar sakta hai. So that's why sabko bulaye but usko chhodke.
*Usse money ka hisab kitab khatam kar de
Main yeh bat un sare girls ko kahna chahunga jo life me sirf apne bf ke sath jina chahti thi. Usko Husband banane ki ichha thi. Isliye dono joint account bhi bank me khule honge. Ya apki paise uske pass aur uska paisa apke pas rahta hoga. Magar jab ap Breakup hi karna chahte ho to is len den ko bhi nipta dena samay se pahle. Taki future me paise se koi problem na ho sake.
Shivani ap is tarah apni shadi bina kisi adchan ke kar sakti ho. Aur ha Thik thak se mrg karna apne father ki head ucha rakhna use nicha mat hone dena. Taki main bhi sabse kah saku ki shivani meri Friend hai.
Thank you. Apko hamari yeh Article kaisi lagi?. Mujhe comment karke jarur batana. Aur fayda mile kisiko to please is post ko sare social site me aur apne dosto ke sath share kar dena. Taki sabhi ko best solution mil paye .
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