Agar ap kisi se true love karte ho aur use hi lifepartner ke roop me dekhna chahte ho. Uske sath ghar sansar basana chahte ho. Iski ap har roj sapne dekhte ho. Par yeh sochte ho ki uske bare me apne parents ko kahoge aur agar woh mana kar de to?. Isse apke dil ko bahut chot pohuchega. To chaliye isi problem ka solution lekar hum aye hai ajke post Love Marriage Ke Liye Family Ko Kaise Manaye- love marriage tips . Isko last tak padhna.
Maine is topic pe ajse 7 days pahle se research kar raha hu. Bahut sare friends mere readers ne bhi mujhse request ki thi. So aj finally socha ki ab iske bare me idea share karna chahiye. Kyoki jyada der karunga to thik nahi hoga.
Maine google search engine me is topic ko dhunda. To mujhe kuch sites mile. First se lekar last tak dekha .Par jitne bhi tip provide kiye hai inme se kuch kaam karte hai aur kuch bakwas se bhari batein. Sab ke sab old tips.
Par today main apke sath share karunga dhamakedhar aur ekdum new fresh formula. Jo 100% kaam jarur karenge. Kyoki main jo bhi kuch yaha likhta hu usko pahle check karta hu. Research karta hu then hi is website me publish karta hu. To chaliye ab sidhe baat par aate hai.
Ap kisi ke sath bahut samay se relationship me hai. Usko bahut chahte hai. Aur usi se hi shadi karna chahte hai. Par gharwalo ko bolne se ghabrate hai. Kyo?. Kyoki iske pichhe raseon hai .agar woh sab HA ME HA na bhare to kya hoga?. Apki baatein na mane to kya hoga????.
Aisa tarika hum batayenge niche jisse bilkul simple tarike se kisi ko bhi manaloge. Ji ha my visitors. Kyoki Gourab aj apna personal experience and secret kahega niche. Sabse pahle to ap dono decided kar lo ki ab shaadi ke liye bilkul ready ho. Dono hi razi ho. Bcs yeh koi chhoti decision nahi hai. Zindagi ka sabse anmol faishla hai. Iska desigion liye bina ghar walo ko kuch bhi mat batane jaana ok. Ab soch hi liya hai to manane ka tarika niche padh lo. 👇
Agar uper ke baat jo maine kaha usme raazi ho to chalo ab love marriage ke liye parents ko kaise manaye ke bare me discuss karte hai .......
✓First apni kisi ghar me close ho usko yeh bataye
Yes dude. Yeh bilkul simple hai. Jo har koi kar sakega. Ap main sab. Ghar me jo bhi apke behat kareeb hai ( jiske sath apki bahut banti hai. Ap dono ekduje ko dil ki sari bate share karte ho) usse apne haal e dil 💝 ki baat bataye. Aur usse yeh bhi kahna ki main kafi din se yeh batane wali thi but samay nahi mila.
Ek cheez ka khash khyal rakhna ki jo bhi kahna ho uske liye perfect time choose karna. Sahi samay pe kiya gaya har kaam ka natija achha hota hai. So tab kahna ki ap usko bahut chahte ho. Also woh cute hai aur aapse bhi utna hi pyar karta hai jitna ki ap.
Yeh sunne ke baad usko ek signal milega. Aur woh apke sath hai gharwalo ko batane me aur un sabko razi karne me to iska wada bhi le lena. Yehi help se apka 30% kaam sure ho jayega . Woh pahle na maane to koi baat nahi lekin ap manate rahna .kyoki koi bhi ek to chahiye jo madad kar sake.
✓ samay samay par aisa kuch karo taki sabko doubt ho ki apka dil kisi pe aa gaya hai
Yeh formula bhi ekdum aasan hai. Hamesha khush rahna. Jab bhi kisi se bate ho tab yeh lagna chahiye ki you bahut happy ho. Haste huye talk karna. Khane me bhi sabse aise hi react karna. Kuch is tarah se karna ki un sabhi ko lagna chahiye ki kisi pe 💝 heart aa gaya hai you ka ok.
✓ jab sab khush ho ek sath bethe ho tab apne heart ki kahani pesh karo
Yehi sahi mauka hai kahne ka . Kyoki maine uper kaha sahi time me sahi bat kahne me har cheez ban jati hai. So jab sab ek sath ghar par bethe ho tab aram se kahna. Iske liye us close dost ka sahara lo. Main step by step kahta hu kya kkarna hoga
👉Jab eksath bethe ho to apka woh close (jo bhi ho sister, masi, etc) woh yeh baat kahegi ki "AB ISKI SHADI KAR DENI CHAHIYE ".
TAB apka family aisa sawal karega ki " KYA KISI KO PASAND HAI?. Tab haskar kah dena ki " YES HAI. AUR MAIN USE BAHUT PYAR KARTA HU SAME WOH BHI KARTI HAI ". Is tarah se kahna to sure definitely maan jayenge. Aur usse milne ko kahenge.
✓ jo bhi bole chup hokar sune
Sabki rai aur pasand alag alag hai. Aur parent yehi chahte hai ki AP KHUSH RAHO. iske liye woh janch padtal karenge. Aur is karan pahle NA bhi kah sakte hai. Par ap kuch mat kahna. Bahesh to bilkul bhi nahi. Wajah bahut sare ho sakte hai. Jaise caste, ummar, hasiyat etc bahut kuch. So chup chap sunna jo bhi bole ok. Abhi nahi maan rahe to aisa bilkul bhi nahi ki kabhi nahi manenge?.
Par ha ek bar partner se milne ko kahna. Sirf unki baato ko sunno hogi. Jo bhi un un logo me dar hai use dur karna hoga. Uske baad sare problem ka solv automatically ho jayega .dont worry.
✓ Dimag ko thanda rakhna
Apki family member means mom dad bujurg jo bhi kahenge usko sunna hoga .aur dimag thanda ko thanda rakhna. Jaldbazi aur behas karne se nuksan only you ka hi hoga yaad rakhna. Isse un sabko aisa feel hoga ki ap uske liye pure diwane ho chuke ho. Pyar me andhe ho chuke ho.
Par aisa nahi hona chahiye. Bahut sare question puchhe jayenge aur sabke sahi sahi answer dena hoga. Apni sathi ke bare me achhe se pesh karna hoga baat. Kya karti hai?. Uske biodata etc. Dikhne me kaisi hai?. Sab question ka jawab thik thak doge doge to definitely sochne par ekbar to majboor ho hi jayega.
✓emotional and drama
Uper ki step hone ke baad bhi nahi ho raha hai kuch bhi to ab jo kuch karna hai apko hi karna hoga. Ab thoda sararat and drama karna padega. Emotional tarike se atyachar karna hoga .sab ke sab baat ko manne se inkar kar de to ap notanki karna start kar dijiye.
Jaise Khana kam kam khaye, sone par jaye aur soye nahi. And har waqt udas rahe. Kuch bhi achha na lag raha ho aisa kuch dikhaye. Fir yeh position dekhkar sochega jarur. Kyoki ghrwalo ko hamesha apne member ki fikar hoti hai .also ap to unke bete/beti ho. So ap aise khoye ho to iska wajah unhe pata hi chal chal jayega. Aur then unse milne ke liye kuch din baad kahega ......
✓ main target MOM
MILNE ke liye razi ho jaye to kisi din gf/bf se kahkar meeting ka plan kare. Iske liye unke ghar hi better hoga. Aur prtnr ko kah dena ki uski mom ko yeh sab kah de. Aur apki mom se thik se discuss karke unhe mana le. Aur ap apki ma ko lekar jana. Kyoki ek aurat hi dusre aurat ko har mamle ko thik se samajhti hai.
Yehi target rakhkar unhe leke jana. Kyuki agar apke ma raazi ho jayenge to family ko yu chutki bajakar raji kar sakenge. Jo aap akele se nahi hoga. Finally yeh process planning ke sath hi karna. Jaldbazi harbari se kuch bhi karne mat jana. Chahe thoda din hi kyu na lag jaye ok.
✓ problems ko dur karna bhi important hai
Har cheez ka koi hal sure hota hai. Mera matlab dono gharwale baat karne ke baad yadi aisa lage ki koi to prblm hai jo ap dono ko milne ke liye rok raha hai .usko jane pahle. Samjhe aur idea se kaam kare. Samasya chahe kitna bhi bada kyu na ho par aap haar mat manna.
Us samasya ko jhat se ukhad kar rakh dena. Kuch din yuhi aise hi bit jayenge dekhna. Par yadi sab solv ho gaye to sabki khusi se hi apki sagai bhi pakki ho sakti hai. Par ha is bich koi galat nirnay mat le
lena ok. Thoda waqt lag raha hai to koi nhi. Usse lagne dena.
✓ sab ke andar bahut taqat hai uska istemal kare
Main ab to trick kahunga usko sunkar har kisi ka dil pighal jayega . Garentee ke sath. Family wale bahut kuch kahenge. Ho sakta hai apki dilruba ki family wale thoda gareeb ho to papa mummy aise bhi kahenge ki " beta main tere liye paise wali aur achhe khandan wali dhund denge jo tujhe bahut khush rakhenge."
Yeh sunkar apka jawab kuch is tarah se hona chahiye :- " PAPA JI MUJHE DHAN DAULAT NAHI. PAISA NAHI. WALKI PYAR CHAHIYE. AUR MAIN ISI PYAR KE BADOLAT KHUSH RAH SAKTA HU. "
APKA yeh jawab sunkar jarur papa ka dil pighal na jaye tab kahna. Its tested formila. Try it ok.
✓ yan mauke par madad kar sake aisa koi
Famili se baat krne se pahle apko apne kisi bujurg, ristedar, bhabi se is bat ko kah dena chahiye. Taki yaan mauke par chanakya ki tarah kaam kar sake. Baat bigadne lage to use thik kar sake. Iske liye sahi sahi chunna use hi jo bharose ke layak ho. Warna baat ko ulta bhi kar sakta hai yeh insaan so we careful .
Yeh samashya how to convince parents for love marriage in different caste jyadatar dekhne ko milte hai. Ladka aur ladki ka caste ko lekar prblm sabse jyada hote hai. Ab main sabhiko kahta hu ki uska caste alag hai to isme uski kya dosh hai jisko lifepartner banana chahte ho. Aur hume yeh bhi pata hai ki ap dono ko koi prb nahi hai ise but pariwar wale nahi mante hai. To iska bhi solutions hai hamare pas .
Koi aisa khushal pariwar dhundo jaha love mrg ki ho. Aur unka cast bhi alag ho. Aur happy ho dono. Yehi to dhundna hoga. Aur unse baat karna hoga. Fir jab paribar bale intercast ko lekar kahe to un logo ko unke pas lekar jao. Aur thanda dimag se samjhao ki " DEKHO YEH DONO KITNA KHOOSH HAI . Ok finally you are done. Yehi baat se ek teer se 2 nishan hoga. Jo unko manane me 100% work karega.
Yeh khash suchna aur sahi mauka hai .partner ko apni parents se milwane ka. To usse milwao. Taki achhi tarah ghulmil jaye. And is ka bhi dhyan rakhna ki uski family se achhi parichay ho jaye .
✓✓ .Situation ke hisab se sab thik ho jayega
Hamare bengali me ek kahabat hai SOTHIK SAMAY SOTHIK CHAUKA - love marriage in bible . Means SAHI TIME ME CHAUKA AUR CHHAKKA. So ek thing ka yaad rakhna ki hamesha apni story tab hi pesh karna jab family me koi prb na chal raha ho .Koi bhi issue nahi ho. Sab ke face par hasi ho.
Yehi time par kahnse sab thik ho jayega.
Main ummid karta hu uper ki tip apko apke sathi ko apna jivansathi banane me koi nahi rok sakta. Aur dekho yaar mera kaam hai sahi tarika batana. Par jo karna hai woh aaap ko hi karna hai. Aur tabhi sab ok hoga jab ghar waalon maan jayenge. Main to just ek jariya hu . Jaise doctor ka kaam hai mareez ko thik karna .baki jivan ka faishla to uperwale ke haat me hai.
But ab ek baat dimag me aa raha hai ki itna kuch karke bhi koi nahi maan raha hai to kya kare. ?. Is situation me only 2 faishla ho sakta hai. 👇
1:- pariwar waalon ke liye apne pyar ka balidan dena.
2:- apne pyar ke liye house ko chhod dena dena jaha par chhote se itne bade huye ho. Jinhone apko jamm diya haain unhe chhodkar chale jaana.
Yeh do faishla itna important hai ki kya batau. Koi nahi le sakta itne bade faishla ek hi pal me. Kyuki yeh bahut bada faiishla hai. Aur yeh apke life ko badal sakta hai. So in decision ko lene se pahle kai baar soch lena . Because its not a normal mind it. Harbadi me koi bhi decision na kare. Main .yehi recommend karta hu.
Agar ap koi ek decision lo family or love jise bhi chuno to jo bhi kiye ho woh bahut badi bhul hogi apki. Kyoki yeh bahut muskio situation hogi so dimag kharab bhi ho sakta hai. Isliye sant rahna. Mujhe nahi pata hai ki ap kya karoge. But itna pata hai ki jab samay aata hai difficult to har koi sahi ko hi chunta hai.
In my case . how to convince parents for love marriage without hurting them Ab main sidhe point par kahta hu. Zindagi me jab bhi aise pal par fash jao mera matlab kisko chuno :- parents or love?. To main apni ma aur pappa ko hi chununga. Ghrwalo ki bat ko swikar karke apni pyaar ki balidaan de dunga.
What why!. ?. Kyoki main jise chahta hu woh bhi utna hi chahti hogi mujhe. But mere mom or dad se jyaada kabhi nahi. Koi bhi maata pita se jyada prem kisi ko de sake aisa koi paida hi nahi hua hai. Sabki apni swarth hoti hai. Par ma baap bina swarth ke hume bada karta hai. Duniya ko jeetne ka taqat deta hai. Mera to yehi ray hai par apka kya hai mujhe pata nahi.
Agar main usse papa aur mom ke khilaf jakar shadi karunga to main aur meri gf happy to honge. But ................... Family wale bahut royenge aur yehi rona mujhe bardast nahi hoga. Kyoki pyar woh hota hai jaha dil se kiya jata hai. Bina kisi sart ke. Yadi main prents ki bato ko maan lu to meri gf ek din 10 din royegi but then apne apko sambhal legi. Aur ha main apni dad or mom ko rulakar kabhi bhi khush nahi rah sakta unke aashirbad ke bina.
Mera pappa daily morning walk par jate hai. Aur as padosh me hamari pahchan hai rutwa hai. So ab kaho main aisa kaam hi kyu karu jisse unka siir nicha ho jaye??????. Aspadosh wale kuch puchhe to jawab hi na de paye aur khud par sarmindgi mahsoosh kare?????. 😞
Main meri khushi ke liye maa baba ki khushi ko ujaad du itna matlabi person nahi hu. Ha mujhe dukh hoga. Dard hoga yeh pata hai. Par yeh bhi pata hai kuch dino baad sab normal ho jayega .aur har din naye rishtey bante hai aur tutte hai .To yeh jaruri nahi hai ki meri bhi na tute. Mujhe isse koi farak nahi padta. Farak tabhi padta hai jab mere liye mere ghar wale rote hai .aur main kabhi bhi aisa nahi hone de sakta.
Kyuki yeh jivan hi hai dukh aur sukh ka. Dard bhare pal ka. Jo aatr hai aur kuch dino baad chala jata hai. Lekin kisi ki jab ijjat chali jati hai tab lautkar kabhi wapis nahi aata. Kisiko muh dikhane ke layak nahi rahta.
So my reader. Hume nahi pata ki ap ladka ho ya ladki. Par hamesha mind me rakhna ki jo bhi karna soch samajhkar karna. Taki then pachhtawa na ho. So meri yeh post kaisi lagi?. Hume comment karke batana. Aur agar useful lage to please ise social media me share karna. Taki har kisi ko solution mil paye. Koi bhi sawal ho to yaha puchhna bhi mat bhulna. Ok ab bye. Take care to all.....
Maine is topic pe ajse 7 days pahle se research kar raha hu. Bahut sare friends mere readers ne bhi mujhse request ki thi. So aj finally socha ki ab iske bare me idea share karna chahiye. Kyoki jyada der karunga to thik nahi hoga.
Maine google search engine me is topic ko dhunda. To mujhe kuch sites mile. First se lekar last tak dekha .Par jitne bhi tip provide kiye hai inme se kuch kaam karte hai aur kuch bakwas se bhari batein. Sab ke sab old tips.
Par today main apke sath share karunga dhamakedhar aur ekdum new fresh formula. Jo 100% kaam jarur karenge. Kyoki main jo bhi kuch yaha likhta hu usko pahle check karta hu. Research karta hu then hi is website me publish karta hu. To chaliye ab sidhe baat par aate hai.
Ap kisi ke sath bahut samay se relationship me hai. Usko bahut chahte hai. Aur usi se hi shadi karna chahte hai. Par gharwalo ko bolne se ghabrate hai. Kyo?. Kyoki iske pichhe raseon hai .agar woh sab HA ME HA na bhare to kya hoga?. Apki baatein na mane to kya hoga????.
Aisa tarika hum batayenge niche jisse bilkul simple tarike se kisi ko bhi manaloge. Ji ha my visitors. Kyoki Gourab aj apna personal experience and secret kahega niche. Sabse pahle to ap dono decided kar lo ki ab shaadi ke liye bilkul ready ho. Dono hi razi ho. Bcs yeh koi chhoti decision nahi hai. Zindagi ka sabse anmol faishla hai. Iska desigion liye bina ghar walo ko kuch bhi mat batane jaana ok. Ab soch hi liya hai to manane ka tarika niche padh lo. 👇
How To convince Family For Love Marriage
Agar uper ke baat jo maine kaha usme raazi ho to chalo ab love marriage ke liye parents ko kaise manaye ke bare me discuss karte hai .......
✓First apni kisi ghar me close ho usko yeh bataye
Yes dude. Yeh bilkul simple hai. Jo har koi kar sakega. Ap main sab. Ghar me jo bhi apke behat kareeb hai ( jiske sath apki bahut banti hai. Ap dono ekduje ko dil ki sari bate share karte ho) usse apne haal e dil 💝 ki baat bataye. Aur usse yeh bhi kahna ki main kafi din se yeh batane wali thi but samay nahi mila.
Ek cheez ka khash khyal rakhna ki jo bhi kahna ho uske liye perfect time choose karna. Sahi samay pe kiya gaya har kaam ka natija achha hota hai. So tab kahna ki ap usko bahut chahte ho. Also woh cute hai aur aapse bhi utna hi pyar karta hai jitna ki ap.
Yeh sunne ke baad usko ek signal milega. Aur woh apke sath hai gharwalo ko batane me aur un sabko razi karne me to iska wada bhi le lena. Yehi help se apka 30% kaam sure ho jayega . Woh pahle na maane to koi baat nahi lekin ap manate rahna .kyoki koi bhi ek to chahiye jo madad kar sake.
✓ samay samay par aisa kuch karo taki sabko doubt ho ki apka dil kisi pe aa gaya hai
Yeh formula bhi ekdum aasan hai. Hamesha khush rahna. Jab bhi kisi se bate ho tab yeh lagna chahiye ki you bahut happy ho. Haste huye talk karna. Khane me bhi sabse aise hi react karna. Kuch is tarah se karna ki un sabhi ko lagna chahiye ki kisi pe 💝 heart aa gaya hai you ka ok.
✓ jab sab khush ho ek sath bethe ho tab apne heart ki kahani pesh karo
papa ko kaise manaye
Yehi sahi mauka hai kahne ka . Kyoki maine uper kaha sahi time me sahi bat kahne me har cheez ban jati hai. So jab sab ek sath ghar par bethe ho tab aram se kahna. Iske liye us close dost ka sahara lo. Main step by step kahta hu kya kkarna hoga
👉Jab eksath bethe ho to apka woh close (jo bhi ho sister, masi, etc) woh yeh baat kahegi ki "AB ISKI SHADI KAR DENI CHAHIYE ".
TAB apka family aisa sawal karega ki " KYA KISI KO PASAND HAI?. Tab haskar kah dena ki " YES HAI. AUR MAIN USE BAHUT PYAR KARTA HU SAME WOH BHI KARTI HAI ". Is tarah se kahna to sure definitely maan jayenge. Aur usse milne ko kahenge.
love marriage family problems
✓ jo bhi bole chup hokar sune
Sabki rai aur pasand alag alag hai. Aur parent yehi chahte hai ki AP KHUSH RAHO. iske liye woh janch padtal karenge. Aur is karan pahle NA bhi kah sakte hai. Par ap kuch mat kahna. Bahesh to bilkul bhi nahi. Wajah bahut sare ho sakte hai. Jaise caste, ummar, hasiyat etc bahut kuch. So chup chap sunna jo bhi bole ok. Abhi nahi maan rahe to aisa bilkul bhi nahi ki kabhi nahi manenge?.
Par ha ek bar partner se milne ko kahna. Sirf unki baato ko sunno hogi. Jo bhi un un logo me dar hai use dur karna hoga. Uske baad sare problem ka solv automatically ho jayega .dont worry.
✓ Dimag ko thanda rakhna
Apki family member means mom dad bujurg jo bhi kahenge usko sunna hoga .aur dimag thanda ko thanda rakhna. Jaldbazi aur behas karne se nuksan only you ka hi hoga yaad rakhna. Isse un sabko aisa feel hoga ki ap uske liye pure diwane ho chuke ho. Pyar me andhe ho chuke ho.
Par aisa nahi hona chahiye. Bahut sare question puchhe jayenge aur sabke sahi sahi answer dena hoga. Apni sathi ke bare me achhe se pesh karna hoga baat. Kya karti hai?. Uske biodata etc. Dikhne me kaisi hai?. Sab question ka jawab thik thak doge doge to definitely sochne par ekbar to majboor ho hi jayega.
✓emotional and drama
gharwalo ko manane ke totke
Uper ki step hone ke baad bhi nahi ho raha hai kuch bhi to ab jo kuch karna hai apko hi karna hoga. Ab thoda sararat and drama karna padega. Emotional tarike se atyachar karna hoga .sab ke sab baat ko manne se inkar kar de to ap notanki karna start kar dijiye.
Jaise Khana kam kam khaye, sone par jaye aur soye nahi. And har waqt udas rahe. Kuch bhi achha na lag raha ho aisa kuch dikhaye. Fir yeh position dekhkar sochega jarur. Kyoki ghrwalo ko hamesha apne member ki fikar hoti hai .also ap to unke bete/beti ho. So ap aise khoye ho to iska wajah unhe pata hi chal chal jayega. Aur then unse milne ke liye kuch din baad kahega ......
✓ main target MOM
MILNE ke liye razi ho jaye to kisi din gf/bf se kahkar meeting ka plan kare. Iske liye unke ghar hi better hoga. Aur prtnr ko kah dena ki uski mom ko yeh sab kah de. Aur apki mom se thik se discuss karke unhe mana le. Aur ap apki ma ko lekar jana. Kyoki ek aurat hi dusre aurat ko har mamle ko thik se samajhti hai.
Yehi target rakhkar unhe leke jana. Kyuki agar apke ma raazi ho jayenge to family ko yu chutki bajakar raji kar sakenge. Jo aap akele se nahi hoga. Finally yeh process planning ke sath hi karna. Jaldbazi harbari se kuch bhi karne mat jana. Chahe thoda din hi kyu na lag jaye ok.
✓ problems ko dur karna bhi important hai
Har cheez ka koi hal sure hota hai. Mera matlab dono gharwale baat karne ke baad yadi aisa lage ki koi to prblm hai jo ap dono ko milne ke liye rok raha hai .usko jane pahle. Samjhe aur idea se kaam kare. Samasya chahe kitna bhi bada kyu na ho par aap haar mat manna.
Us samasya ko jhat se ukhad kar rakh dena. Kuch din yuhi aise hi bit jayenge dekhna. Par yadi sab solv ho gaye to sabki khusi se hi apki sagai bhi pakki ho sakti hai. Par ha is bich koi galat nirnay mat le
lena ok. Thoda waqt lag raha hai to koi nhi. Usse lagne dena.
✓ sab ke andar bahut taqat hai uska istemal kare
Main ab to trick kahunga usko sunkar har kisi ka dil pighal jayega . Garentee ke sath. Family wale bahut kuch kahenge. Ho sakta hai apki dilruba ki family wale thoda gareeb ho to papa mummy aise bhi kahenge ki " beta main tere liye paise wali aur achhe khandan wali dhund denge jo tujhe bahut khush rakhenge."
Yeh sunkar apka jawab kuch is tarah se hona chahiye :- " PAPA JI MUJHE DHAN DAULAT NAHI. PAISA NAHI. WALKI PYAR CHAHIYE. AUR MAIN ISI PYAR KE BADOLAT KHUSH RAH SAKTA HU. "
APKA yeh jawab sunkar jarur papa ka dil pighal na jaye tab kahna. Its tested formila. Try it ok.
✓ yan mauke par madad kar sake aisa koi
Famili se baat krne se pahle apko apne kisi bujurg, ristedar, bhabi se is bat ko kah dena chahiye. Taki yaan mauke par chanakya ki tarah kaam kar sake. Baat bigadne lage to use thik kar sake. Iske liye sahi sahi chunna use hi jo bharose ke layak ho. Warna baat ko ulta bhi kar sakta hai yeh insaan so we careful .
Inter caste marriage kaise kare
Yeh samashya how to convince parents for love marriage in different caste jyadatar dekhne ko milte hai. Ladka aur ladki ka caste ko lekar prblm sabse jyada hote hai. Ab main sabhiko kahta hu ki uska caste alag hai to isme uski kya dosh hai jisko lifepartner banana chahte ho. Aur hume yeh bhi pata hai ki ap dono ko koi prb nahi hai ise but pariwar wale nahi mante hai. To iska bhi solutions hai hamare pas .
Koi aisa khushal pariwar dhundo jaha love mrg ki ho. Aur unka cast bhi alag ho. Aur happy ho dono. Yehi to dhundna hoga. Aur unse baat karna hoga. Fir jab paribar bale intercast ko lekar kahe to un logo ko unke pas lekar jao. Aur thanda dimag se samjhao ki " DEKHO YEH DONO KITNA KHOOSH HAI . Ok finally you are done. Yehi baat se ek teer se 2 nishan hoga. Jo unko manane me 100% work karega.
parents ko kaise manaye
Yeh khash suchna aur sahi mauka hai .partner ko apni parents se milwane ka. To usse milwao. Taki achhi tarah ghulmil jaye. And is ka bhi dhyan rakhna ki uski family se achhi parichay ho jaye .
✓✓ .Situation ke hisab se sab thik ho jayega
Hamare bengali me ek kahabat hai SOTHIK SAMAY SOTHIK CHAUKA - love marriage in bible . Means SAHI TIME ME CHAUKA AUR CHHAKKA. So ek thing ka yaad rakhna ki hamesha apni story tab hi pesh karna jab family me koi prb na chal raha ho .Koi bhi issue nahi ho. Sab ke face par hasi ho.
Yehi time par kahnse sab thik ho jayega.
My Tips
Main ummid karta hu uper ki tip apko apke sathi ko apna jivansathi banane me koi nahi rok sakta. Aur dekho yaar mera kaam hai sahi tarika batana. Par jo karna hai woh aaap ko hi karna hai. Aur tabhi sab ok hoga jab ghar waalon maan jayenge. Main to just ek jariya hu . Jaise doctor ka kaam hai mareez ko thik karna .baki jivan ka faishla to uperwale ke haat me hai.
But ab ek baat dimag me aa raha hai ki itna kuch karke bhi koi nahi maan raha hai to kya kare. ?. Is situation me only 2 faishla ho sakta hai. 👇
1:- pariwar waalon ke liye apne pyar ka balidan dena.
2:- apne pyar ke liye house ko chhod dena dena jaha par chhote se itne bade huye ho. Jinhone apko jamm diya haain unhe chhodkar chale jaana.
Yeh do faishla itna important hai ki kya batau. Koi nahi le sakta itne bade faishla ek hi pal me. Kyuki yeh bahut bada faiishla hai. Aur yeh apke life ko badal sakta hai. So in decision ko lene se pahle kai baar soch lena . Because its not a normal mind it. Harbadi me koi bhi decision na kare. Main .yehi recommend karta hu.
My suggestion :-
Agar ap in dono ke bich fash gaye ho aur apko kuch samajh nahi aa raha hai kisko chhodkar kisko chunu. Aur isi time apki dilruba / jaan apko force kar raha hai ki jo bhi karna hai jaldi karo. To mind it ki ap jisko bhi chune ho woh apke layak nahi hai. Because jindagi ka itna bada faishla lene me jo force kar raha hai abhi se hi to sunlo woh kabhi bhi koi bhi aham faishla apko lene nshi dega .jo bhi karega wohi karega. Aur jo is waqt aisa bol raha ho woh achha life partner nahi baan sakta bhabisya me .
Agar ap koi ek decision lo family or love jise bhi chuno to jo bhi kiye ho woh bahut badi bhul hogi apki. Kyoki yeh bahut muskio situation hogi so dimag kharab bhi ho sakta hai. Isliye sant rahna. Mujhe nahi pata hai ki ap kya karoge. But itna pata hai ki jab samay aata hai difficult to har koi sahi ko hi chunta hai.
pyar aur ghar waalon me se kisko chune :- Gourab Tips
In my case . how to convince parents for love marriage without hurting them Ab main sidhe point par kahta hu. Zindagi me jab bhi aise pal par fash jao mera matlab kisko chuno :- parents or love?. To main apni ma aur pappa ko hi chununga. Ghrwalo ki bat ko swikar karke apni pyaar ki balidaan de dunga.
What why!. ?. Kyoki main jise chahta hu woh bhi utna hi chahti hogi mujhe. But mere mom or dad se jyaada kabhi nahi. Koi bhi maata pita se jyada prem kisi ko de sake aisa koi paida hi nahi hua hai. Sabki apni swarth hoti hai. Par ma baap bina swarth ke hume bada karta hai. Duniya ko jeetne ka taqat deta hai. Mera to yehi ray hai par apka kya hai mujhe pata nahi.
Agar main usse papa aur mom ke khilaf jakar shadi karunga to main aur meri gf happy to honge. But ................... Family wale bahut royenge aur yehi rona mujhe bardast nahi hoga. Kyoki pyar woh hota hai jaha dil se kiya jata hai. Bina kisi sart ke. Yadi main prents ki bato ko maan lu to meri gf ek din 10 din royegi but then apne apko sambhal legi. Aur ha main apni dad or mom ko rulakar kabhi bhi khush nahi rah sakta unke aashirbad ke bina.
Mera pappa daily morning walk par jate hai. Aur as padosh me hamari pahchan hai rutwa hai. So ab kaho main aisa kaam hi kyu karu jisse unka siir nicha ho jaye??????. Aspadosh wale kuch puchhe to jawab hi na de paye aur khud par sarmindgi mahsoosh kare?????. 😞
Main meri khushi ke liye maa baba ki khushi ko ujaad du itna matlabi person nahi hu. Ha mujhe dukh hoga. Dard hoga yeh pata hai. Par yeh bhi pata hai kuch dino baad sab normal ho jayega .aur har din naye rishtey bante hai aur tutte hai .To yeh jaruri nahi hai ki meri bhi na tute. Mujhe isse koi farak nahi padta. Farak tabhi padta hai jab mere liye mere ghar wale rote hai .aur main kabhi bhi aisa nahi hone de sakta.
Kyuki yeh jivan hi hai dukh aur sukh ka. Dard bhare pal ka. Jo aatr hai aur kuch dino baad chala jata hai. Lekin kisi ki jab ijjat chali jati hai tab lautkar kabhi wapis nahi aata. Kisiko muh dikhane ke layak nahi rahta.
So my reader. Hume nahi pata ki ap ladka ho ya ladki. Par hamesha mind me rakhna ki jo bhi karna soch samajhkar karna. Taki then pachhtawa na ho. So meri yeh post kaisi lagi?. Hume comment karke batana. Aur agar useful lage to please ise social media me share karna. Taki har kisi ko solution mil paye. Koi bhi sawal ho to yaha puchhna bhi mat bhulna. Ok ab bye. Take care to all.....
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